如果是你 你會這麼做嗎?

These few days i hav been thinking," wat am i going to do, if i wan to archieve something tat normal methods wont giv mi?" Bcoz i come to point tat if i keep continuing my normal way of doing things i will defintely get the same kind of result, but if i wan to archieve diff kind of result i muz defintely do something different!

There r 3 type of ppl:
1)願意改變 懂得反省自己的缺點
2)不願改變 只反省自己的優點
3)一成不變 只檢討別人


Recently i hav met some old frens outside, most of them r working adults, after their work we went to "yamcha" at one of the kopitiam. I was amazed on how they critizise on their job and company, most of them is not satisfied working at tat kind of environment. I ask them 1 qns," Wat hav u done so far, if u r not happy in the company?" All of them replied the same thing,"like tat loh..wat more can we do?"
Then i asked them 2nd qns," Do u all wan to hav a better life in the future?"
They all nodded,"of coz we wan lah." They claim they wan, but wat hav they done so far?

Wat do u mean by changing? change for mi is something tat muz be done the opposite way rather using the normal way. Most ppl tat resist change i can say is in their "comfort zone", they dun see the need or reason to change unless they feel the heat. Let mi ask u one simple qns, lets say touchwood oneday our parents r gone leaving ur younger silbings behind, wat would u do? r u going to studying and play or r u going to work to support them and takecare of them?

Change for mi till now is a simple word yet hard to execute.. everyday i keep doing those stuff i dun like to do. If today i dun like to talk to ppl, i will try to approach them, if i dunlike to giv phonecalls to ppl, i make sure i will phone ppl, if i dun like to read, i make it a habit to read, if im a quiet person then try be a sociable person, if im impatient, try to be patient then.

Change of coz muz be on the good side of it lah, and defintely will take time de...
只有成為我們要成為的人
我們才可以說服別人改變